Pakistani wedding wizards share most bizarre client stories

A sunlit candid of bride, stylist and fashion editor Mehek Saeed on her nikah, March 27, 2019. (Photo courtesy: Ali Khurshid)
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Updated 10 December 2019
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Pakistani wedding wizards share most bizarre client stories

  • Arab News gets the scoop from high-end wedding photographers and planners
  • Number one request from brides, grooms, and guests is “make me thin”

ISLAMABAD: Weddings are Pakistan's jam. It is what it is, and we own it with lots of love and some eye-rolls. We take our weddings very seriously and the people who put them together for us have no easy climb ahead of them.

There is a list of people who bring to life dream weddings of couples – or their parents – and no one ranks higher on it than photographers and event planners. What is demanded of them is often magical skills. Arab News spoke to some of these magicians and asked them about their most memorable client stories.

Qamar Anwar, who shoots weddings in Islamabad and Dubai and has been a photographer for nearly a decade, said the number one request he gets from everyone is “make me thin.”

“So many things go down at weddings, and some I have seen multiple times. Full-on fights during joota chupai. I have seen grooms storming off the stage and not coming back,” Anwar told Arab News over the phone, referring to a South Asian custom in which sisters and friends of the bride hide the groom’s shoes until he pays them money.




A bride showcases her mehndi, Dec. 7, 2019.  (Photo courtesy: Qamar Anwar) 

He remembers one peculiar situation in which the client was angry that he took pictures at all.

“At a recent wedding, I was hired by the groom’s side. After the event, when the pictures were released, his sisters were extremely angry at me and demanded to know why I took pictures of the bride!” Anwar laughed.

“I was blown away if not her pictures, then whose would I be taking! But they argued that they had called me to only take pictures of their side, quite literally them and the groom, and no one from the bride’s side, including the bride herself.”

Ali Khurshid, who has been a photographer for 14 years and had his work featured in Times Magazine, said that at some weddings the bride and groom “just get it.”




Twirls and smiles on the nikah day, March 27, 2019. (Photo courtesy: Ali Khurshid)
 

“I am able to get in there and do all the weird stuff like hiding behind corners, laying on the ground, and they respect and understand your work and let it happen,” he told Arab News in a phone conversation.

Khurshid’s wedding photography has taken him all over the world – from the US to Iceland and Norway – but one of his most memorable weddings allowed him to enter India.

“I must have shot three to four thousand events and sometimes things do not go as imagined, you plan so many things, but come to the day things happen as they will,” Khurshid said as he shared the story.

“I have always wanted to go to India, see my ancestral cities and home,” he said.

At one wedding he took a photograph of India's ambassador to Pakistan. Apparently, the ambassador was happy about it and invited him to his office. As he arrived the diplomat stamped in his passport entry for four cities of his choice, “no questions asked. It was pretty amazing!”

Taha Memon who leads Dawat, a wedding planning, management, and catering company based in Karachi, laughed as he remembered the craziest demand from his client.

“One time, a client told me that he wanted to come in on a train like Shah Rukh Khan famously did in the song ‘Chal Chaiyan, Chaiyan.' ”




Taha Memon of Dawat and Sona on their mehndi, Sept. 4, 2019. (Photo courtesy: Dawat)

Another event that stayed in his memory was carefully prepared on a beach.
 
“We started our work, got everything ready, it was all custom bamboo work, we made lounges, stalls and even custom chairs and bamboo hangings for this luau theme,” he said.

But suddenly a large wave annihilated all their efforts!  “Everything was ready on time, sleepless nights, my team worked really hard, and then a huge wave came in and took everything.”

They started to swim to recover all they could. They panicked when the client arrived. “He saw us wading out and making this for him, and he was generous and appreciative of our efforts. It was an unexpected occurrence, one of the most memorable and wildest things I have dealt with.”

Shazreh Khalid of Zareen and Shazreh Khalid events in Lahore, who has been a cornerstone of high-end, stunning weddings and events, told Arab News of a request from which she had to discourage her client.

“I once had a client who wanted to enter her mehndi on a real elephant. She wanted me to get in contact with the Lahore Zoo and make it happen! Of course, I had to convince her to change her mind, but she had so much conviction and was dead serious.”




Sports reporter and cricket commentator Zainab Abbas on her mehndi day organized by Zareen and Shazreh Khalid Events, Nov. 30, 2019. (Photo courtesy: Zareen and Shazreh Khalid Events)

While she was proud of her dissuading skills in the elephant case, she is far more proud of another event, an enormous wedding that did take place.

“One event that I’m extremely proud of was Shah Mahmood Qureshi’s son Zain Qureshi’s walima in Multan. It was a 15,000 people event that my team and I pulled off meticulously. My clients were super happy and really acknowledged our hard work.”

Fahd Nassr of The Social Squad also shared a memorable intercontinental story.




An illustration made by Ayesha Haroon of The Social Squad featuring the bride and groom who ordered pink chum chums for their wedding in New York, July 14, 2019. (Photo courtesy: The Social Squad)

“It was a multicultural wedding, the groom was from India, the bride was from Pakistan, and the wedding was in New York. It was about six months of planning and just a few hours before the flight she brought it to our knowledge that we would need to bring pink chum chums because her fiancé is obsessed with them and she wanted to have a whole pyramid of chum chums in the middle of the dance floor,” Fahd said referring to sweat treats often featured in wedding boxes.

“We got that arranged, got it sorted out, got a full load of chum chums with us. As soon as we landed in Istanbul for our transit, she told us about her love for mango lassi.” And the mangoes had to come from Pakistan.

“So now we're three hours away from our flight to fly to New York, and I am sitting at the Istanbul airport calling Pakistan and we are trying to get 30 kilograms of mangoes from Karachi to New York, with the event being just five days away! We made sure it got done and mango lassi was prepared for the event on time.”


Volunteers who helped with rescue work during UAE rains honored by Pakistani consulate

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Volunteers who helped with rescue work during UAE rains honored by Pakistani consulate

  • Last month UAE received heaviest rains in the 75 years that records have been kept
  • Rains brought much of the country to a standstill and caused significant damage

ISLAMABAD: A team of Pakistani volunteers who helped rescue hundreds of people and dozens of vehicles during last month’s record-breaking rains and flooding in the UAE have been honored by the Consulate General of Pakistan in Dubai, a press statement from the mission said on Thursday.

Last month, Dubai was hit by unprecedented storms that paralyzed the Emirates for days. The downpours brought much of the country to a standstill and caused significant damage, flooding trapped residents in traffic, offices and homes and overrunning malls and roads.

“The volunteers were honored with certificates of appreciation by the Consul General in recognition of their unmatched services. Other officers and officials of the consulate were also present on the occasion,” the consulate’s statement said. 

“We are immensely proud of the Pakistani volunteers who demonstrated exceptional courage and compassion during the recent heavy rains in the UAE. Their selfless dedication to rescuing those in need reflects the true spirit of humanity … We salute these volunteers for their unwavering commitment to serving others, and their actions serve as an inspiration to us all.”

One volunteer, Tanvir Athar, said their efforts had also inspired others. 

“After our services in the recent rains, a number of volunteers have connected us and offered their services for any such efforts in future,” Athar was quoted in the statement as saying. 

He said the group of volunteers had been rescuing people stuck in deserts and developed a mobile application to receive requests for assistance. 

Last month, Dubai had to endure the towering task of clearing its water clogged roads and drying out flooded homes after a record storm saw a year’s rainfall in a day. Dubai International Airport, a major travel hub, also struggled for days to clear a backlog of flights and many roads were still flooded in the aftermath of the deluge.

The rains were the heaviest experienced by the United Arab Emirates in the 75 years that records have been kept. 


Pakistan court reserves verdict on plea by Imran Khan’s wife to be moved out of house arrest

Updated 02 May 2024
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Pakistan court reserves verdict on plea by Imran Khan’s wife to be moved out of house arrest

  • Bushra Bibi has requested court to shift her from Bani Gala home to Adiala Jail where Khan is also imprisoned 
  • Bushra has been handed two sentences, 14 years in graft case and 7 years for violating Pakistan's marriage law 

ISLAMABAD: The Islamabad High Court (IHC) on Thursday reserved its verdict on a petition filed by ex-premier Imran Khan’s wife Bushra Bibi seeking her transfer form her Banigala residence, declared a sub-jail, to Adiala Jail, where her husband is incarcerated.

Bushra has been living under house arrest at her husband's sprawling Bani Gala mansion in Islamabad since Jan. 31 when both were sentenced to 14 years in prison in a case that relates to accusations they undervalued gifts from a state repository and gained profits from selling them while Khan was prime minister from 2018-22.  Khan is jailed at Rawalpindi's Adiala Jail. 

In February, Khan and his wife were also sentenced to seven years on charges they violated the country's marriage law when they wed in 2018 - the fourth sentence for Khan and the second for his wife.

During Thursday’s hearing, Bushra’s lawyer Usman Gill said after her sentencing in the state repository case by the trial court, his client went to Adiala Jail as per the trial court order’s which was also forwarded to the jail superintendent. But on the orders of the interior ministry, the chief commissioner issued an “illegal notification for transfer,” the lawyer argued. 

“There was no instruction from the authorities concerned regarding the transfer from Adiala Jail to Banigala,” he said.

“Neither the provincial government nor did the Punjab prisons inspector general issue any such directive [for transfer] … The place of imprisonment was to be determined by the trial court and not the chief commissioner.”

The state’s counsel argued that Bushra was moved to Bani Gala because of security threats. 

“Were the 141 women who were brought to Adiala after Bushra less privileged?” the judge hearing the case asked, saying they too should be imprisoned at their houses then.

“Sometimes you say that [you] cannot present her [Bushra] in the court as there are threats and at times, you say that the jail is not secure. Are you secure?” the judge quipped. “If I am confined in my home by my own will, I would be very happy but how can a prisoner’s property be turned into a sub-jail against his will?”

The IHC subsequently reserved its verdict on the petition.

In a separate petition to the court filed last month, Bushar, a deeply religious woman widely believed to be Khan’s spiritual guide, alleged she was being poisoned through contaminated food and subjected to “mental and physical torture which is becoming a serious threat to her health and life.” She also alleged that her room and bathroom had been bugged and multiple hidden cameras installed in a “blatant violation of her privacy, dignity and honor.”

The petition said Bushra was only given ten minutes for meetings with family members and lawyers, with five jail staff supervising at all times.

Khan was first jailed after being handed a three-year prison sentence in August 2023 by the Election Commission for not declaring assets earned from selling gifts worth more than 140 million rupees ($501,000) in state possession and received during his premiership. In January, Khan and Bushra were handed 14-year jail terms following a separate investigation by the country’s top anti-graft body into the same charges involving state gifts. 

An anti-graft court in Islamabad also handed Khan a 10-year jail term in January for revealing state secrets, a week before national elections on Feb. 8. The ruling on his marriage to Bushra and a seven-year sentence each for both also came ahead of the polls.

Khan has also been indicted under Pakistan's anti-terrorism law in connection with violence against the military that erupted following his brief arrest related to the Al-Qadir case on May 9. A section of Pakistan's 1997 anti-terrorism act prescribes the death penalty as maximum punishment. Khan has denied the charges under the anti-terrorism law, saying he was in detention when the violence took place. 

Khan’s convictions, which mean he is banned from holding public office, ruled the 71-year-old out of general elections held earlier this year. Arguably Pakistan's most popular politician, Khan says all cases against him are motivated to keep him out of politics.


Pakistan PM’s recent Saudi visit ‘most successful in decades’ — information minister

Updated 02 May 2024
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Pakistan PM’s recent Saudi visit ‘most successful in decades’ — information minister

  • Shehbaz Sharif was in Saudi Arabia from April 27-30 where he met crown prince, several top Saudi ministers
  • “High-powered” delegation of Saudi businessmen due in Pakistan in “few days” to discuss private sector investments 

ISLAMABAD: Pakistani Information Minister Attaullah Tarar said on Friday Prime Minister Shehbaz Sharif’s recent visit to Saudi Arabia was the most successful tour to the Kingdom in decades by a Pakistani leader, with the premier holding at least twelve meetings, including with the crown prince.

Sharif was in Riyadh from Apr. 27-30 to attend a special two-day meeting of the World Economic Forum on global collaboration, growth and energy. On the sidelines of the WEF conference, Sharif met and discussed bilateral investment and economic partnerships with Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman and various top officials from the Kingdom. 

This was Sharif’s second meeting with the crown prince in a month. Before that he also met him when he last traveled to the Kindom on April 6-8.

“Such a successful tour of Saudi Arabia has not been seen in decades,” Tarar told a press briefing on Friday, speaking about Sharif’s recent trip to Riyadh for the WEF special meeting. “With Saudi ministers, the process of meetings went on for two days.”

Among those Sharif met were the Saudi ministers of finance, industries, investment, energy, climate and economy and planning, the adviser of the Saudi-Pakistan Supreme Coordination Council and the presidents of the Saudi central bank and Islamic Development Bank.

“PM had twelve meetings in two days which has not happened in history,” Tarar said. “And in the meetings every minister came and told us that it was the order of Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman that they had to do efforts for Pakistan and cooperate with Pakistan and we have come to tell you we will do whatever we can for investments in Pakistan.”

Tarar said a “high-powered” delegation of Saudi business people and heads of major Saudi companies would be in Islamabad in the “next few days.” 

“Delegation is coming to islamabad and we have planned a big program for investment in the private sector,” the information minister added. 

Pakistan and Saudi Arabia enjoy strong trade, defense and cultural ties. The Kingdom is home to over 2.7 million Pakistani expatriates and serves as the top source of remittances to the cash-strapped South Asian country.

Both Pakistan and Saudi Arabia have been closely working to increase bilateral trade and investment deals in recent weeks, and the Kingdom recently reaffirmed its commitment to expedite an investment package worth $5 billion.

Cash-strapped Pakistan desperately needs to shore up its foreign reserves and signal to the International Monetary Fund (IMF) that it can continue to meet requirements for foreign financing which has been a key demand in previous bailout packages. 

Saudi Arabia has often come to Pakistan’s aid in the past, regularly providing it oil on deferred payments and offering direct financial support to help stabilize its economy and shore up forex reserves.


PIA operations to Dubai, Sharjah ‘severely affected’ due to UAE rains

Updated 02 May 2024
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PIA operations to Dubai, Sharjah ‘severely affected’ due to UAE rains

  • Extreme weather in UAE expected to continue until Friday, authorities have issued safety advisories for residents
  • Latest rains come two weeks after Dubai was hit by unprecedented storms that paralyzed the emirate for days

KARACHI: Pakistan’s national carrier PIA said on Thursday its operations to Dubai and Sharjah had been “severely affected” by a latest spell of heavy rains in the UAE and would remain suspended until further notice.

UAE residents woke up to heavy rain, thunderstorms, and strong winds on Thursday morning, as predicted by the UAE’s National Center of Meteorology (NCM) on Wednesday, May 1. The extreme weather is expected to continue until Friday, May 3, and authorities have issued safety adviseries for residents.

The latest rains come two weeks after Dubai was hit by unprecedented storms that paralyzed the emirate for days.

“Air operations to Dubai and Sharjah are severely affected due to heavy rains in UAE,” PIA said in a statement. “Air operations of other airlines including PIA will remain suspended for the time being.”

The airline said passengers of affected flights should contact PIA call center 786 786 111 for their flight information and alternative arrangements.

Last month, Dubai had to endure the towering task of clearing its water clogged roads and drying out flooded homes after a record storm saw a year’s rainfall in a day. Dubai International Airport, a major travel hub, also struggled for days to clear a backlog of flights and many roads were still flooded in the aftermath of the deluge.

The rains were the heaviest experienced by the United Arab Emirates in the 75 years that records have been kept. They brought much of the country to a standstill and caused significant damage, flooding trapped residents in traffic, offices and homes and overrunning malls and roads. 
 


In scenic Abbottabad, an old church tells a tale of religious unity, colonial heritage

Updated 02 May 2024
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In scenic Abbottabad, an old church tells a tale of religious unity, colonial heritage

  • St. Luke’s Church was built in 1864 on land donated by Queen Victoria, empress of India
  • Can seat up to 150 worshippers, expanding into outdoor area to host larger crowds

ABBOTTABAD: Located in Abbottabad, a picturesque city set against the mountainous terrain of Pakistan’s northwestern Khyber Pakhtunkhwa province, the 160-year-old St. Luke’s Church has a tale to tell of religious unity and the region’s colonial history. 

Built in 1864 during British rule, the Anglican-Protestant church was established to serve British officials serving in the Indian subcontinent. Construction of St. Luke’s commenced in 1854-55, with initial delays due to slow fund-raising and then a brief interruption due to the Indian Rebellion of 1857. It was completed and then consecrated by the Bishop of Calcutta in 1864. 

Despite disruptions during the partition of British India in 1947 and the birth of Pakistan, the church has continued to host mass and retained many of its original architectural elements.

“During its construction, the church’s exterior was built with stones that were cut and laid by hand,” Rev. Rafiq Javed, a priest at the church appointed by the Diocese of Peshawar, told Arab News this week, explaining the history of St. Luke’s Church.

“The inner part [of the church] is built using mud, lentils, jute, sawdust, and paste made of eggs. The eggs were provided by the local people.”

St. Luke’s Church retains many elements from the time of its construction, such as stained-glass windows and old locks and their gigantic keys. A pipe organ stands in the church foyer.

Javed said the musical instrument had become unusable due to water damage some 50 years ago but its sound was once well known across the Abbottabad valley.

The church walls display plaques dating back to 1865 and serving as a memory of fallen British soldiers. One also comes across a metallic device permanently fixed on one of the stairs at the church’s entrance that was used by British troops to remove mud from their shoes before going to the main hall for worship.

The local Christian community says the church property was donated by Queen Victoria, empress of India, and one of its gates was named after her. The church property comprises the vicar’s home as well as staff quarters for caretakers of the building.

The church seats up to 150 worshippers, expanding into the outdoor area to accommodate larger crowds during special occasions such as Christmas and Easter.

Christianity, the third largest religion in Muslim-majority Pakistan, is followed by 1.27 percent of the population, according to the 2017 Census. The community has roughly equal proportions of Catholics and Protestants, with a small number of Eastern Orthodox and Oriental Orthodox Christians as well. There are around 4,000 Christians in Abbottabad, according to local estimates.

Javed the priest said the building of the church was a community effort:

“At the time, the people who lived here included Hindus and our Muslim brothers as well and they also lent a hand in building this church. The eggs [to make paste] were provided by the local Hindu and Muslim communities.”